There are a few caveats which I list here:
1 Present height is vital. If you’re 5’7″, don’t go for 5″ elevators — believe it or not, despite these most women won’t notice! But some WILL. At that level and some inches max stick together. Then it only resembles the height that is added that is natural that ALL shoes give. However, the truth is it is more. If you are already tall, more than 6′, nicely (and life is not fair I guess!) You really can add as much as you like and girls never ever notice. I am 6’2.5′ and constantly add over 4″ constantly today. I am staggered how I can take off my boots, drift around and even then girls simply do not realize.
2 if you’re incorporating height in this situation, do not draw attention to your feet: this is something which applies particularly in North America where individuals are extremely conservative and somewhat old fashioned. Europe is different and a few countries severely so: all sorts of choices are acceptable in several nations in Europe, it really is all dependent upon age and personal style and what’s trendy — but normally, if you are asking me or yourself a question about being detected and fearing the answer of a woman, then adhere to traditional and mainstream. No designs or with trousers which do not on the boot/casual dress shoe. There is an irony here: once you’re with someone full time, then you can provide full rein to your choice and that can often mean adding greater elevation through thicker soles in diverse colours etc.. But clearly only if it’s your own style.
3 And finally don’t be tempted to add too much height as well because of comfort the further you have to work shoes. At walking right, at the ideal garments etc.. Trust me get used to it, and now I love being at least 4″ taller. However, I have got there over a period. So go carefully in the beginning.
And you’ll always be amazed at how people in general your family, will not notice you’ve grown.
My mom works as a psychologist supporting the baffled police in England to grasp why different witnesses tell them that the alleged culprit is 5’8″ or 6′, blond or black, sporting a green jumper or a red one. This is only because people are NOT observant even about very details never mind about the gradations of height. Once something is fixed in their thoughts, of course, that differs. So do NOT go about drawing attention until and unless you really want to or measuring yourself.
So that is adding height in a level that is appropriate will NOT be detected. And once you get to know the girl more, well then it’s all up to you what you do or say — she might never really actually notice unless you say, and a lot of the time that it’s like the girl herself — in certain footwear you’re taller than others. It is No Big Deal.